Have you ever noticed this? 

Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally 
want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right? 

You will then notice, if she's really a 'hot' one, the guy
will not only want to attract her attention, but he'll also 
want to try to impress her in whatever way he can. 

He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the 
other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset 
is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing 
it, he won't he will do the obvious. 

He'll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk 
faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's 
with her. 

Notice that some guys will even have their own lil' 'interview' 
thing going on in their head. 

They'll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they'll 
be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. 
"how old are you," "where are you from", "what do you like 
doing in your free time," "how's is your mom doing," 
"how's your dad doing?"... 

Know what I'm talking about? 

They'll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking 
that this will actually keep the conversation going but 
honestly, don't you think an attractive woman gets asked the 
same 'ol questions all the time?

Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy 
who's there for her all the time, who does all the sweet 
things for her, buying her gifts and doing all those stuff 
that your parents normally teaches their kids on dating.

Now, don't you think that 90% of guys do the exact same 
thing all the time?

You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that 
you're being needy and insecure. Why do I say needy? 

'Needy' because it gives her the impression that you need 
to do certain things; you need to practically 'work' your 
way to impress her.

It also projects a sign of weakness in your part. That 
you're just insecure about yourself. 

Trust me, doing so will seem way too 'normal' for them.

They won't stick around when they sense this. 

And women are extremely good in their intuition. I can't 
really explain why. Nor can they. But it's just something 
that they can just feel.

So, whats the best way to spark the attraction with women 
then? 

Simple. 

Do the UNEXPECTED. 

Do the unpredictable that catches their attention. 

For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a 
lack of interest in the girl whether or not she's there. 

You see, I'm here telling you that it's perfectly OK to have 
relaxed moments of silences when you're with the girl.

It's ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times 
what you should in fact do is to project a very laid back, 
relaxed, and confident air about yourself when you're with 
her.

You must project to her that you're really comfortable with 
your own self first and not just looking to pick up someone, 
and to impress someone.

You have to show it to her that you don't need to impress 
her.

She'll have to be the one to do the impressing. 

Think of it this way, if she's a real attractive woman, she
probably gets 'hit on' at least 3-5 times a day -- EVERYDAY.

I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the 
same pathetic way and will try to impress like the rest of 
the pack.

She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has
become used to having guys hit on her. 

Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if you're not 
intimidated by her beauty, and you just act as if you're not 
one bit interested in her... 

... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence
at times. Imagine how things have changed now? 

When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you don't.

Don't you think she'll even take a little notice of then? 

Think about this. It's some powerful stuff. 

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the 
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "28 SureFire Ways 
To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook -- The Net's FIRST 
ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets 
on female attraction techniques and strategies.